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The Self Haven is for women who’ve made the brave decision to separate, felt the weight of it, and are ready to move forward with more confidence, clarity, and joy - surrounded by other women who truly get it.
WHAT YOU'LL FIND INSIDE...
✨ A welcoming, bestie-style community
✨ Thoughtful prompts and conversations that look forward
✨ Supportive connection without emotional heaviness
✨ Live Zoom Sessions to reflect, grow, and rediscover yourself
✨ Women walking a similar path
And a whole lot more....
This is for you if...
- You chose to leave a relationship that no longer felt right
- You’ve done a lot of thinking, feeling, and reflecting already
- You’re past the initial chaos and ready to look forward
- You crave connection with women who get it
- You want inspiration, confidence, and joy - not emotional overwhelm
"True self-care is not salt baths and chocolate cake, it is making the choice to build a life you don't need to regularly escape from".
Brianna Wiest - Author
What The Self Haven Is (and Isn’t)
It is:
- A supportive, inspiring community
- A place for growth, rediscovery, and self-trust
- A space that honours the past without living in it
- A circle of women moving forward...together
It is not:
- A therapy group
- A venting or trauma-dumping space
- A place to relive old stories on repeat
- About blame, bitterness, or staying stuck
FIND YOURSELF AGAIN.
Life changed, and in the process, you changed too.
Inside The Self Haven you'll find a supportive space for women who are navigating life after separation, they're past the initial chaos and ready to rediscover themselves.
You’ll find clarity, confidence, and connection as you rebuild a life that feels like yours again.
Why I created The Self Haven...
"The Self Haven was inspired from my personal season of self-rediscovery and from the conversations I've had with women who are in the same (often lonely) season themselves."
FAQ'S
What exactly is The Self Haven?
The Self Haven is an online membership created for women who have been through a separation or divorce and are ready to reconnect with themselves and rebuild their lives.
It’s a supportive, private space to rediscover who you are now, what brings you joy, and to connect with other women who truly understand this season of life.
The membership is hosted on its own private platform (not social media), so everything is in one calm, organised place. You can access The Self Haven anytime on desktop or mobile, and share openly knowing it’s a safe, supportive environment.
Is The Self Haven right for me?
The Self Haven is best suited for women who are around 6-18 months post separation or divorce and are ready to focus on themselves again.
If you’re feeling past the initial crisis stage and are beginning to ask questions like “Who am I now?”, “What do I want my life to look like?” or “How do I rebuild confidence, friendships, and a sense of self?” then The Self Haven was created for you.
This membership is for women who:
- Are ready for reflection, growth, and gentle rebuilding
- Want connection with other women who truly understand this chapter
- Are seeking a calm, supportive space focused on self-discovery, not venting
- Value privacy, safety, and meaningful conversations
The Self Haven may not be the right fit if:
- You are in the very early or crisis stage of separation and need urgent emotional or legal support
- You’re looking for a therapy or counselling service (The Self Haven is not a replacement for professional support)
Instead, The Self Haven is a space for after the dust begins to settle - where you can reconnect with yourself, regain clarity and confidence, and move forward feeling supported, grounded, and less alone.
What will I get out of being part of this community?
The Self Haven offers a supportive space to reconnect with yourself, feel understood, and move forward alongside women who are on a similar path - without pressure, judgement, or overwhelm.
After that first really messy part is over, it can be a lonely time - to the outside world things have settled down and friends (who don't quite understand) stop checking in on you as often. It looks like you're doing well but big change takes time to move through and having people who not only understand you but are living it with you help you feel less alone and more seen and supported. That's a major driving force on why TSH was created.
You will also have access to tools and resources that encourage you to create and live a life that's truly aligned to you.
I have a brand I'd like to add to the Friends of TSH list.
Great! Please email us at hello@theselfhaven.com.au with your businesses details and we'll be in touch shortly.
Can I cancel at anytime?
Yes of course, you can cancel at any time.
Once cancelled, your access will remain active until the end of your current paid period. We do not offer refunds for partial months or unused time once a billing period has begun.
